You only become just friends when you let it happen. If you don't tell a girl you fancy her from the beginning and you talk to her without expressing your intentions from the beginning then you just become platonic friends. She doesn't put you in the friendzone, she just simply is treating you as a friend.
That's why when you confess feelings later she says that she only sees you as a friend, because you have been acting as her friend, and she has only treat you as her friend and has never had the chance to think of you as more than a friend and just because you say you fancy her now, it's too late for her to see you on a different way.
You always need to be clear about what you are looking for from the beggaring that you first talk to a woman for the first time. If you are not clear, then girls will assume that you don't like them that way and will therefore be just your friend, or like you say you will be in the friendzoned. So basically the friendzone is not a punishment or anything it's just that the girls don't know you like them, and when you finally reveal that you like them it's too late, since they have already made the decision long time ago that you are just their friend and always will be.
So, if you talk to a girl before the date, you need to be clear, flirt with her, hit on her, say pick up lines if necessary to get your intentions across, call her attractive or sexy, or anything that suggests you fancy her sexually, and not as a platonic friend.
And if she doesn't want anything like that with you, she will let you know, but that's doesn't mean she had friendzoned you… it will just mean she has rejected you, but offers friendship if you are interested in that, and if you are not interested in just friends you shouldn't accept the offer.
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