The moment a woman senses you are trying to impress her she is turned off. Because attractive men don't need to try to be attractive. (And I don't just mean physically attractive, but overall attractiveness)
Don't impress her let her impress you.
Getting a girlfriend is not about impressing her it's about you encouraging her to impress you. You are not the one who has to impress her, it's her who has to impress you. She is the one who has to put effort to get you, and for her to put effort to get you, you need to be impressive.
So what does that mean? It means that you should be an impressive man not for her but on a day to day basis even if you never see her again. If you do impressive things just for her and to her, but then when you are not around her you go back to normal non-impressive mode, that is not impressive and she will know that you are full of shit when you try to impress her.
It’s not about doing things that make her say wow. It's about doing things that make you proud of yourself and to woo yourself. For example working out and getting a good body is what you can do to be impressive. If you get a good body, you will be an impressive man without specifically trying to woo her, which will make her put effort to get you to notice her and choose her. However if you say to her that you only workout to get girls she will be turned off. So do it for yourself, do it because you care about being healthy.
Another one is developing a hobby, something that you are good at and that you actually like doing, even if girls do not notice. For example, playing an instrument like the guitar. But not so that you can impress girls, but because you actually love guitar even if no girl cares. You need to be impressive and then girls will try hard to impress you and when that happens that's when you will get girls.
Focus on being impressive or impressing yourself for your own pride. Avoid trying to impress girls or trying to do things to get the approval of girls. Learn the difference between these two statements and apply it.
Has laoreet percipitur ad. Vide interesset in mei, no his legimus verterem. Et nostrum imperdiet appellantur usu, mnesarchum referrentur id vim.
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