There are three things you should do in order to get a date with a woman you met on a club, school, uni, street, coffee shop... etc
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| Avoid being this poor guy (This is needy) |
Spark an EMOTION to catch her attention and make her reply to you
First you should send a text that sparks an emotion on her. In order words you should maker her laugh or smile through that text. In order to do so, you can send a text which tells her about your day in a exaggerated way, for example:
"I have just drink a coffee which must have been made by Gods hands" So good"
Me: I just saw a movie which reminded me of you...
She: Which one?
Me:You will probably want to hit me if i tell you...
She:Now you have to tell me!
Me: (I ignore the text for a few minutes)
She: Please... tell me!!...
Me: (Whatever movie she reminds you of)
She: Haha, why that movie?
Me: I can only tell you over a coffee, how about Wednesday afternoon.
She: Ok :)
Now that is just an example, the point is that you need to write a text that she will reply with a haha at least, if she doesn't respond with a haha, it wasn't a good text.
Create a CONNECTION to remind her of the positive things you did when you met
The second text should create a connection with her. In order words you should remind her of how you met, or what you talk about the last time you saw her that seem to made her laugh at that moment. So if you were talking about something that she found funny, remind her of that thing that she found funny. She will remember what she felt immediately and if it is positive she will be happy that you reminded her of that memory.
Example. (This was a girl who told me she hated when their flatmates were dirty and that she studies graphics design and that she draws pretty good) So i told her:
Me: I have just remember something...
She: What?
Me: A girl who hates when their flatmates are dirty, who hates when they expect her to clean after them and a person who might be talented. That and how tragic would it be not to see such person again.
She: Haha, yes you are right :)
Find out the logistics and SET UP A DATE
The third text should be the one that tries to set up a date with her. You should only try to set up a date with her if you have made her laugh through the first texts... If you don't maker her laugh and just try to set up date in the first message you will probably fail... She will come up with some bullshit excuses like. "I have to study/work/sleep" or "I am pretty busy" or in the worst case "I have a boyfriend"
Me: To be honest i felt a positive vive when i met you, lets meet each other better
She: Sure we can go out.
Me: Excellent whats your schedule look like.
She: I am free on weekend.
Cool: Let's meet on Saturday.
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