Daygame could be considered as the act of seducing women on the the day in any type of situation, that is not a club or a bar, by being direct with your intentions, honest in your communication and natural in the way you express yourself with the girl.
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It is something that when you see it done right, is beautiful, impressive, cool and very effective, but it is also something that takes a lot of confidence.
My first experience trying to do Daygame was, let's say, predictable... I was with a friend who I just showed him about this stuff, and thought it was impressive but, at the same time, risky.
He thought that it has to take a lot of balls to go approach a woman on the street and expressing your romantic and sexual interest right from the beginning and so did I...
Anywas we were gonna try with at least one girl. We spend like 30 minutes walking around the mall, to get mentally ready for that first approach, but it did not happened.
We put so many excuses, like this girl is not hot enough, or this girl is too hot for me, or this girl is with her female friend, or this girl is with a boy, or this girl seems angry or this girl is with her phone or this girl is reading, or im not ready, or people are gonna hear and see me doing this and laugh at me if she rejects me, or this girl is too young or too old for a guy like me.
Loads and loads of excuses, the truth is we were pussies, we had social anxiety to flirt with women in such a direct way in such situation.
There are some exercises to beat that social anxiety, but we also thought they were risky or extreme, we did not want to make a fool of ourselves in the middle of the mall or we did not want to be considered as creepy and weird guys to these women that we would probably never see in the rest of our lives anyways...
The heart beats fasts even if its not your turn when you see your friend trying to do it, you also feel bad for what he has to go trough. It is a very irrational feeling in the sense that the worst thing that can happen is that the girl ignores you, the girl says no, or the girl says she has a boyfriend.
She is not gonna slap you in the face or yell at you, because you are just telling her that she is attractive or beautiful and that you wanna meet her. You are not raping her or anything like that but still the fear is there.
And this is the first time we try to do this thing called Daygame. Let's hope the next time goes a little bit better.
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