A very important thing to get more dates with girls

One thing that one should make sure to do, when you approach a girl in the street, is to make inside jokes. Inside jokes are good because it creates a connection between the two of you making it easier to get a date when you remind a girl of such joke over texts messages.

One easy way to make inside jokes is to give her some kind of nickname.

Usually I do this when she is telling me her number, i just say something like "I am gonna save you as, "Hanna, the cheerful artist" or "Jessica, the sweet" or "The strong Mary"

You give her a nickname based on the information (verbal or not verbal) that she gave you or the physical appearance that she had when you met her. If it describes her well, she will laugh when you tell her the nickname, if she prefers another nickname she will suggest another one. 

Then you should call her to make sure she gave you her real number and tell her:
"Save my number as "James the crazy guy" or "Harry the cool guy" or "Leo Hot Chocolate"

The point is that she has a nickname and she saves you with another one. 

When you text her you will stand out over all the other contacts that she has and she will immediately remember you with a smile when you text her, which is a very good thing. 

Its not the same to get a text from Harry (thinking who the heck is this Harry) than Leo Hot Chocolate because she will immediately remember you and this nicknames reminds her exactly of that good feeling that she had when she laugh when you told her to save you with such a cheesy nickname.

Remember that she is a girl and if she is pretty, she will have a very large lists of contacts of guys trying to get her attention and you need to stand out by all means.

Then when you text her you can send her a text like this:
"Remember how i memorized you in my phone?"
You will be surprised how she reacts you can use that text also if she gives you a lot of excuses when you propose a date

Conclusion: 

1 - Ask her how you want her to memorize her and if she doesn't have good imagination for a good nickname, tell her the nickname yourself and save her number.
2 - Call her or text her right there to make sure the phone number is real (By using Whatsapp you can avoid calling her, since her name and contact will suddenly be displayed in that app)
3 -And tell her to save you with a cheesy nickname.

I hope this helps you, and if anyone has good suggestions for inside jokes or good ways to beat excuses when you suggest a date, or good initial messages to text her and bring her to a positive state, feel free to post them.

Ernesto Fernandez

Author & Editor

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