Cómo cambiar el marco del premio y aumentar tu valor para ligar.

Métete con ella en broma
Una manera de demostrar que su belleza te da igual y que no la pones en un pedestal es metiéndote con ella en broma, es decir estar de guasa con ella. Pero cuidado, no te metas con efectos reales de ella (gordura, fealdad,...), porque eso solo hará verte como un capullo, metete sólo con cosas superficiales, y tonterías puntuales que haga o diga.
Por ejemplo, imagínate que ella dice o hace una tontería, te puedes meter con ella diciéndole:
“Menos mal que eres guapa porque, si no, haría como que no te conozco” o “Le voy a decir al camarero que no te de mas bebida antes de que me vea mi distinguida clientela y mi reputación caiga por los suelos”
Si te toca por accidente o a propósito, le dices: 

“Eh, que la mercancía no es gratis” o el famoso “Se mira, pero no se toca”.

“Tú: Te he dicho lo guapa que estás?”, “Ella: No”, “Tú: Por algo será”

Ella: “Llevo horas arreglándome” Tú: “En serio? No lo había notado”. (Esto se lo dices si es evidente que ella está muy guapa después de arreglarse) Luego añades que estás tomándole el pelo, para que no se mosquee y vea que no la tratas muy en serio. 

Imitarla
También puedes imitarla de forma burlona. Imita sus gestos, imita todo lo que haga y que ella se descuenta de que la estás imitando a modo de burla, imita su voz, sus ademanes, su postura, todo lo que ella diga, incluso cuando te diga que pares. Imitarla puede parecer una tontería pero demuestra que no la tomas tan en serio y eso te desmarca de los demás. Y cuando más exagerada sea tu imitación, hasta el punto de que parece una caricatura de ella, mejor. 

Si te dice que pares de imitarla, de forma más o menos dominante o exigente, puedes dar un pisotón en el suelo y imitar sus palabras, “Que pares” para meterte con ella, como si la acusaras de ser una mandona. Todo esto hazlo de buen rollo.

Juegos de roles - Acúsala de tener intenciones ocultas
Lo mejor es cambiar los roles para que el premio pases a ser tú, y para eso puedes: Acusarlas de tener intenciones ocultas, hacer como que sospechas de ella, malinterpretar lo que diga o haga acusándola de querer estar ligando contigo, utiliza la exageración y para hacer acusaciones absurdas. Ejemplo:
“No me estarás espiando/siguiendo...” “No?” “ Y por qué actúas tan nerviosa cuando saco el tema” 
“Que sepas que te he visto ehh... Te he visto mirándome el culo... Si si, ahora disimula, disimula.” 

Provócala
Ejemplo: Cada vez que la oigas decir que hay algo que no le gusta o si critica algo o alguien, llévale la contraria.

Ella: “No me gusta esa música”
Tú: “Pues ahora cuando te vea no voy a parar de poner esa música”

Ella: “Tus pantalones están manchados” 
Tú: “Lo se, pero no me los pienso quitar, así que no te hagas ilusiones”

Ella: “No me gustan los chicos chulitos” 
Tú: “A mi tampoco, y eso que a veces peco de chulería demasiado” o “Pues a mi me vas a odiar”

Ella: “No me gusta Harry Potter/cualquier película/música,...” 
Tú: “Nota mental: No salir con esta chica y hacer como no la conoces a partir de ahora”

Ella: “No eres mi tipo”
Tú: “Menos mal, ya empezaba a sentirme acosado” o “Buff, menos mal, tenia miedo de que me acosases, secuestrases, y me quisieses besar”

La idea es provocarla de forma humorística, divertida, llevándolo la contraria, o malinterpretado sus palabras”

Otro ejemplo: Ignórala a propósito en broma. Haz como si no la oyeras cuando ella te llame la aunque ella este a tu lado, como si ella no existiera y después dile que estabas tomándole el pelo.

Desarrolla alguna afición
Tocar la guitarra, saber trucos de magia sencillos, destacar en algún deporte, ir al gimnasio y estar cachas, bailar. Algo en lo que puedas destacar, siempre va a aumentar tu atractivo, sobre todo cuando ella lo ve. Eso si, cuidado con querer impresionarla, no puede parecer que tus aficiones las haces para impresionarla a ella a propósito.

Tips to flirt better with girls if you are scared

To avoid the friendly vive, you need to be interested in sex to some extent without being creepy. You need to compliment her, treat her like she turns you on, now there is a fine line between being sexual and being creepy. If you come in too strong, you will scare girls away. If you however never show your intentions then she will always think you just want friendship.

So, compliment both her personality but also her looks, tell her she has a nice butt, or that if she keeps looking at you like that, you won't be able to control yourself, or that when she touches you like that your heart starts beating faster, or playfully touch her, tickle her if you two are comfortable with each other, wink at her, check her out and don't be shy about getting caught, don't apologise for expressing sexual interest, because if you express sexual interest and hen apologise it shows that you don't know what you want and that you are insecure, if you come on to strong and offend her then just kidding will do, but only if she is seriously offended, and next time remember not too come on that strong.

Other forms of flirting include teasing like: pretending she is annoying you, acting offended, playfully messing with her, taking something she wants further away out of her reach, trolling her, mimicking or imitating her, blocking her path playfully, making her think you are going to give her something and then taking it away when she tries to grab it.

Hitting on her, like pick up lines is considered flirting too, but you need to be careful not say something too cheesy or something she has heard a million times before. A sincere compliment of how her attitude sparks your sexual desire is also flirting such as: “when you show how smart you are about biological psychology, is like my brain has a reaction which causes my heart to beat faster making me feel hot all of the sudden” ok just made that up, but you get the point hopefully, dont just say wow you are so smart, instead say how a quality you admire from her makes you desire her and want her more.

Another way to flirt is to take what she says as an opportunity to hit on her for example:

She: are you gay? You: after seeing you, not anymore.

She: I bet you said that to every girl

You: Maybe, but I feel different when I say it to you.

She: Do you often approach girls?

You: Only those who punch me in the heart with eyes like yours.

Why don't some girls like or find nice guys attractive?

I found this somewhere, but....there is a fair amount of truth to it, imo.
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."

Nice Guys complain that women must WANT to be treated like shit, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."

If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.

What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.

Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...

Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".

They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.

They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.

Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.

Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.

Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."

The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherently unlovable anyways?"

More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!

Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.

This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".

Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.

You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.

How To Accept Yourself And Improve Your Confidence

Many people's questions when it comes to picking up girls are? Does size matter? Do girls think Daygame is creepy? Do girls like small guys? Do girls like fat guys? Do look matter? Do white girls like Asians boys? Is it ok to do Daygame in "x" place without people thinking I'm creepy? she doesn't invest much or she doesn't smile, am I doing something wrong? I am very old, can I still do Daygame and succeed with young girls? Am I too young for her? I have this weird quality, will girls like it? She says I'm not her type or that she doesn't like something about me, how do I fix it? I cannot approach because I am too scared of what she might think or anyone looking at me might think. She has turned down a rich and better looking guy than me, do I have any chance with her?

This type of questions come from the belief that you are not good enough for a girl in other words they come from your own insecurity... The belief that she is out of your league, because society standards and expectations says she should be... Expectations that your ego has accepted as the norm... The main thing you need to solve before attempting to attract any girl, is your own self-confidence. You have to accept all your flaws, you have to accept that you cannot be perfect, that no one in this world is perfect and that you don't need to be perfect. Accept that everyone will judge you and that's something you cannot control. Even if you think you are avoiding being judge, you are probably still being judge, you know why? Because if I see you I will judge you, I judge everyone I see whether I want it or not, whether that's good or not, but It doesn't really matter because you will never know for sure if I am judging you. My life goes on and your life too, no matter how many bad things I thought to myself about you.

That thing called ego, will suffer sure, ego will hate being ridiculed, ego will hate being criticized, ego will hate getting rejected. But you are not your ego, ego is not what defines you as a person. Ego is not your friend. Ego is what makes you unhappy. Ego is what makes you suffer, ego acts like your friend but in reality it is your own worst enemy. Ego is what makes you doubt in yourself, because ego believes you are better off in your comfort zone. Ego is like an invisible small red demon in your shoulder that tries to bring you down.

Learn to like yourself, learn to crack jokes about that flaw you have, if you are Chinese, learn to laugh at those stereotypes you have, crack jokes about your own penis, if you are short, learn to make fun of your height, if you are older than her, make fun of how you could be her father, if you are fat make fun of how she will have to be on top if she doesn't wanna start to do weightlifting on bed. If she doesn't like your pants, tell her that no matter how much she insists you are not going to pull them out. 

Make a list of all the flaws you have or all the stereotypes you are suppose to have and start looking for possible jokes you can use to your advantage while doing Daygame. This list will also help you to accept yourself. True confidence starts when you totally accept yourself. If you totally accept yourself, you will believe in yourself and if you believe in yourself, the girl will too and therefore you wil succeed. However if you do not believe in yourself, the girl will obviously not believe in you and therefore you will not succeed.