A very important thing to get more dates with girls

One thing that one should make sure to do, when you approach a girl in the street, is to make inside jokes. Inside jokes are good because it creates a connection between the two of you making it easier to get a date when you remind a girl of such joke over texts messages.

One easy way to make inside jokes is to give her some kind of nickname.

Usually I do this when she is telling me her number, i just say something like "I am gonna save you as, "Hanna, the cheerful artist" or "Jessica, the sweet" or "The strong Mary"

You give her a nickname based on the information (verbal or not verbal) that she gave you or the physical appearance that she had when you met her. If it describes her well, she will laugh when you tell her the nickname, if she prefers another nickname she will suggest another one. 

Then you should call her to make sure she gave you her real number and tell her:
"Save my number as "James the crazy guy" or "Harry the cool guy" or "Leo Hot Chocolate"

The point is that she has a nickname and she saves you with another one. 

When you text her you will stand out over all the other contacts that she has and she will immediately remember you with a smile when you text her, which is a very good thing. 

Its not the same to get a text from Harry (thinking who the heck is this Harry) than Leo Hot Chocolate because she will immediately remember you and this nicknames reminds her exactly of that good feeling that she had when she laugh when you told her to save you with such a cheesy nickname.

Remember that she is a girl and if she is pretty, she will have a very large lists of contacts of guys trying to get her attention and you need to stand out by all means.

Then when you text her you can send her a text like this:
"Remember how i memorized you in my phone?"
You will be surprised how she reacts you can use that text also if she gives you a lot of excuses when you propose a date

Conclusion: 

1 - Ask her how you want her to memorize her and if she doesn't have good imagination for a good nickname, tell her the nickname yourself and save her number.
2 - Call her or text her right there to make sure the phone number is real (By using Whatsapp you can avoid calling her, since her name and contact will suddenly be displayed in that app)
3 -And tell her to save you with a cheesy nickname.

I hope this helps you, and if anyone has good suggestions for inside jokes or good ways to beat excuses when you suggest a date, or good initial messages to text her and bring her to a positive state, feel free to post them.

How to get a date trough texts

There are three things you should do in order to get a date with a woman you met on a club, school, uni, street, coffee shop... etc

Avoid being this poor guy (This is needy)

Spark an EMOTION to catch her attention and make her reply to you

First you should send a text that sparks an emotion on her. In order words you should maker her laugh or smile through that text. In order to do so, you can send a text which tells her about your day in a exaggerated way, for example:

"I have just drink a coffee which must have been made by Gods hands" So good"

Me: I just saw a movie which reminded me of you...

She: Which one?

Me:You will probably want to hit me if i tell you...

She:Now you have to tell me!

Me: (I ignore the text for a few minutes)

She: Please... tell me!!...

Me: (Whatever movie she reminds you of)

She: Haha, why that movie?

Me: I can only tell you over a coffee, how about Wednesday afternoon.

She: Ok :)

Now that is just an example, the point is that you need to write a text that she will reply with a haha at least, if she doesn't respond with a haha, it wasn't a good text.

Create a CONNECTION to remind her of the positive things you did when you met

The second text should create a connection with her. In order words you should remind her of how you met, or what you talk about the last time you saw her that seem to made her laugh at that moment. So if you were talking about something that she found funny, remind her of that thing that she found funny. She will remember what she felt immediately and if it is positive she will be happy that you reminded her of that memory.

Example. (This was a girl who told me she hated when their flatmates were dirty and that she studies graphics design and that she draws pretty good) So i told her:

Me: I have just remember something...

She: What?

Me: A girl who hates when their flatmates are dirty, who hates when they expect her to clean after them and a person who might be talented. That and how tragic would it be not to see such person again.

She: Haha, yes you are right :)

Find out the logistics and SET UP A DATE

The third text should be the one that tries to set up a date with her. You should only try to set up a date with her if you have made her laugh through the first texts... If you don't maker her laugh and just try to set up date in the first message you will probably fail... She will come up with some bullshit excuses like. "I have to study/work/sleep" or "I am pretty busy" or in the worst case "I have a boyfriend"

Me: To be honest i felt a positive vive when i met you, lets meet each other better

She: Sure we can go out.

Me: Excellent whats your schedule look like.

She: I am free on weekend.

Cool: Let's meet on Saturday.

How should a date be like

The first date should not be in a coffee shop, but if it is, You should only take 1 coffee and take it with you so that you can do something fun, at least for her... Something like going to the mall... If you stay in a coffee shop, this puts too much pressure on both of you and awkward silences might occur. 

If there is awkward silences she will look at the clock and you will get desperate because you feel she is bored as fuck... and is just counting down the minutes till the date is over..

So even if you agree to meet at a coffee shop, when you arrive immediately tell her that you would rather go somewhere else... (Bowling, Shopping, Ice Skating on an adventure) If she she says that she doesn't have time/money, look just come and if she insist on doing the date in the coffee shop, tell her that you are gonna go because you don't want to spend time in a coffee shop because its boring for you. 

Say this in a nice manner. Don't be a dick. And in fact you should go, because if you stay that means she has control over you, and you show that you are needy and that you value her more than you do yourself. Which is not attractive to her. A real man is selective, the type of man she likes is a someone  who has a lot of women and knows what he wants out of life... Thats why you should make the rules, because she senses then you are a high value man which respects itself and that will not try hard to comply with her.

Don't take her to the cinema either... A date is supposed to be 2 people spending time and having fun while they talk to each other and meet each other. In the cinema you cannot talk. And no, you are not going to be able to kiss her when the kissing scene shows up. Because that only happens in Hollywood romantic comedies, not in real life, unless she is really desperate and trust me if she is pretty she is not desperate to get a kiss, because she can get a kiss at every club.

If she talks about other boys, stop her and let her know that she is boring you out. Tell her: "I barely know you and you are already telling me about your problems... I would like to take things more slowly because I am not your boyfriend"

Make sure that you are the man in control of every situation... If you guys are sitting down while taking a drink.. Sit next to her. Don't let a table stand between the two of you... You have to sit next to her, and the reason is simple. If you do not sit next to her, you will not be able to make contact, and you MUST make contact with her, you need to touch her arm when you make a point to her, you need to award her whenever she says something nice to you with a 5 hive, you need to hug her, YES HUG HER, when she says that she likes you, or she says that she is enjoying the date, or she finds you funny/attractive/cute/good-looking...

Go to different places, don't just play bowling, and then go home... Play bowling then after that, tell her that "You should go take a coffee/drink at whatever pub/shop to chill" Then take her to another different place. This should all come natural, don't tell her that you have planned to do this, then this, and after that this because it shows you are needy...

Remember: Needy = Bad

A man does what he wants, and spends time with who he wants, and how he wants... And he doesn't say sorry for doing those things. So if you want to kiss her, just do it, don't ask. Its better to say sorry than to ask for permission... If you feel that you want to kiss her, and you don't do, that you prefer to do it in the second date or third... That means you are worried that you might not see her again and do not want to screw things up... Problem is if you do not make a move, you will sooner or later be put in the friend zone, thats why you have to make a move. And i know its risky, because if she is not attracted to you, you will maybe not see her again. B

Now i am going to tell you my experience in a bad date with a hot girl and what should i have done instead...

Analysis of a mediocre boring date

So there she was, waiting for me, I had come 3 mins late (You should never arrive at a date before she does)

She said she had just arrived smiling

I don't touch her, in order words i don't give her a kiss on the cheek or a simple high when we meet (Mistake)

We start walking, and start taking about how we are doing with university and staff... (Ok, you need to create comfort to break the ice)

I tell her that i do not know where the coffee shop is (Mistake, i should have know where the fucking Coffee shop was, so that I could lead) She knows where it is, so she leads me there...

We arrive and sit in different sides of a table... (Mistake I should have sat next to her, and i knew so, but did not have the balls for some reason i thought she was gonna complain about me sitting next to her)

We talked for an 40 mins, we are not comfortable she is nice and she puts effort in talking, but for some reason i don't seem to be interested in her or at least i get bored with the topics we are talking, to make things even worst, she now has found a comfortable talk in talking about how much he dislikes her flatmate... 

This might sound like a good thing that she is talking about how she dislikes a man, bit it is not... If she talks about other guy with you, there is a possibility she is attracted to her, even if she says not... And also she is talking about other guy with you!!!, You are not her gay best friend so why listen to that? BIG MISTAKE...)

Then there was a point in which in the most natural way she could, said that she had to buy some things for a girl friend of hers and i wanted to go with her... 

(I thought it was a good sign considering how bad the date was developing, but it is not, by saying yes i want to go there with you, i am basically telling her that i have nothing better to do, that she is the one leading AGAIN the date, and that i am needy and desperate to spend as much time with her as possible, plus it puts me on the friend zone because a man doesn't do favors for a girl until he has had sex with her, at least a man that wants to have something with her... 

But considering that i have already failed hard from the beginning I guess it did not matter. What i should have done is, look lets go this place (Bowling, Go Kart, Ice Skating) it would have saved the date, but somehow i was scared that she would say no... And so it was a big mistake.

We kept talking about boring things about our lives... And then we gave each other a hug, she was the one giving it... The date had lasted an hour and 15 minutes... And nothing happened. Not a kiss, no fun, nothing... I feel sad for her, because even though it was me who failed... She was the one suffering the causes of my fail... She just wanted to have fun and she did not because of me...