TO SUMMARIZE:
- Accuse her of hitting on you or accuse her of having suspicious intentions, usually sexual ones.
For example: "Are you hitting on me?" "Why do you act so nervous when I bring it up?" "Stop looking at my cleavage" "I talked to you because you were staring at me, so it’s your fault” “Stop thinking indecent things about me”
- Have the mentality that you are evaluating her all the time because you are the one who chooses the girl, not her.For example: Give her and take away points based on how well she behaves with you. If she says something positive, 1 point for her, if she says something negative, something that works against your interests, -1 point for her.
- Misinterpret anything that could have a double entendre (double meaning, usually a sexual double meaning)
- Mess with her, especially about things she is proud of. If she has obviously a good style, act like she doesn’t have that good style. If she obviously works out, suggest that she would benefit from working out a little bit. Be careful tough if she is fat, or very skinny don’t mess with something like that because she might simply resent you for attacking her insecurities. Only mess with things the girl is, or should be, proud of.
- Try to exagerare things, for example exaggerate your plans with her, (eg: let’s get married and fly off to the Caribbean) exaggerate your reactions and feelings in a humorous absurd way.
- Make her imagine things and positive intense feelings with you when you suggest plans.
Focus on describing the feelings she will feel if you meet up. The more descriptive you are the better, focus on the smell, the sounds, the sensations. She needs to imagine herself feeling those positive feelings and associate them with you.
- Don’t give away your validation
She must earn validation, so don’t try to compliment if she has not even done anything to deserve it, don’t try to accept her requests for free, always suggest you may do it, as long as she does something for you in return
- Don’t forget to set up plans quickly
It’s important to understand that the longer the conversation, the worst. Long conversations make you a text buddy. You need to hang out, but you need to make her want to hang out without being needy.
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