Many people's questions when it comes to picking up girls are? Does size matter? Do girls think Daygame is creepy? Do girls like small guys? Do girls like fat guys? Do look matter? Do white girls like Asians boys? Is it ok to do Daygame in "x" place without people thinking I'm creepy? she doesn't invest much or she doesn't smile, am I doing something wrong? I am very old, can I still do Daygame and succeed with young girls? Am I too young for her? I have this weird quality, will girls like it? She says I'm not her type or that she doesn't like something about me, how do I fix it? I cannot approach because I am too scared of what she might think or anyone looking at me might think. She has turned down a rich and better looking guy than me, do I have any chance with her?
This type of questions come from the belief that you are not good enough for a girl in other words they come from your own insecurity... The belief that she is out of your league, because society standards and expectations says she should be... Expectations that your ego has accepted as the norm... The main thing you need to solve before attempting to attract any girl, is your own self-confidence. You have to accept all your flaws, you have to accept that you cannot be perfect, that no one in this world is perfect and that you don't need to be perfect. Accept that everyone will judge you and that's something you cannot control. Even if you think you are avoiding being judge, you are probably still being judge, you know why? Because if I see you I will judge you, I judge everyone I see whether I want it or not, whether that's good or not, but It doesn't really matter because you will never know for sure if I am judging you. My life goes on and your life too, no matter how many bad things I thought to myself about you.
That thing called ego, will suffer sure, ego will hate being ridiculed, ego will hate being criticized, ego will hate getting rejected. But you are not your ego, ego is not what defines you as a person. Ego is not your friend. Ego is what makes you unhappy. Ego is what makes you suffer, ego acts like your friend but in reality it is your own worst enemy. Ego is what makes you doubt in yourself, because ego believes you are better off in your comfort zone. Ego is like an invisible small red demon in your shoulder that tries to bring you down.
Learn to like yourself, learn to crack jokes about that flaw you have, if you are Chinese, learn to laugh at those stereotypes you have, crack jokes about your own penis, if you are short, learn to make fun of your height, if you are older than her, make fun of how you could be her father, if you are fat make fun of how she will have to be on top if she doesn't wanna start to do weightlifting on bed. If she doesn't like your pants, tell her that no matter how much she insists you are not going to pull them out.
Make a list of all the flaws you have or all the stereotypes you are suppose to have and start looking for possible jokes you can use to your advantage while doing Daygame. This list will also help you to accept yourself. True confidence starts when you totally accept yourself. If you totally accept yourself, you will believe in yourself and if you believe in yourself, the girl will too and therefore you wil succeed. However if you do not believe in yourself, the girl will obviously not believe in you and therefore you will not succeed.
